School Bans Pupil From Being An Entrepreneur

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No Entrepreneurs At Our School

The school in question is my daughters and the pupil banned is my daughter.

So I get a call last week from my daughters tutor asking that I go to the school to have a meeting with her and her superior about my daughters behavior. I of course agree and we set a time a date to meet.

On the day in question my daughter informed me that she had got into trouble at school. I asked what she had done to which she said “I set up a business, like you have”. <- Clever answer to avoid trouble    

My daughter is 12. She is fully aware of what I do as she always asks me how business is going, how does it all work, why do I come home and work after I have spent all day at work?

Teach Them When They Are Young

I have always told her the truth. I see no reason to hide what I am doing from her. There is nothing wrong with being a network / internet marketer, or a person who wants to make more of himself and is willing to work hard at it to make it happen.

She knows that I want to get out of the rat-race, be my own boss, own my own time and make my own money.

She knows that a good education does not guarantee a good job and a good lifestyle, but she knows it is important to learn all she can whilst she is there. (Academically she is great As and Bs all the way).

The Business Plan

It was recently her birthday. She got a boat loads of presents (as usual). One of the presents she received was a big box of posh chocolates.

She isn’t much of a chocolate fan so when she had had her fill she came upon her latest business idea. (She has had quite a few. When she was 6 she took some flowers from her grandmothers back garden and then sold them back to her, smart).

Her latest business idea was to take the unwanted sweets to school and sell them to her friends in their lunch break.

So said, so done. By the end of lunch she had almost sold out. As she saw nothing wrong with what she was doing she attempted to sell some sweets to a teacher. This was her mistake.

The Lesson

The teacher confiscated the sweets and her hard earned money, sent her to the office where she had to explain all her “wrong doing”.

As she was oblivious to what she had done wrong of course she found it impossible to explain it.

Instead she told her teacher that her future financial security is down to her and her alone, she can’t rely on any government or anyone else to provide for her when she gets older. <- At least she has been listening.

This is when I was called.

Not wanting to crush her entrepreneurial spirit I let her know that her idea was a good one, but she had gone against school rules and will have to suffer the consequences of that.

Had she of sold her sweets outside of school she would have been fine and would of been reaping the benefits of a good days trade.

These are the ups and downs of business.

Wherever you set up business you have to do your research, understand what the rules are and abide by them. (Spammers would do well to learn a little bit of this).

Me Back At The School

I am sitting in the school office and boy did it bring back memories.

The senior tutor and my daughters tutor had the big box of posh chocolates on their desk with only a few left in it. (She had indeed done well).

They proceeded to explain that it was against school policy for pupils to sell anything on school grounds as it encourages pupils to bring money into schools. Pupils are not at school to turn a profit, they are they to learn, so that they can get a good education and when they are older get a good job….

I got all of that (I actually got in trouble for the same thing when I was in school).

I assured them that I had explained all of this to my daughter and she now understood why it was a big no no to set up shop on school grounds without permission.

The Challenge

I then challenged the school to tap into and channel their pupils entrepreneurial spirits in ways that will benefit the school and teach the pupils how to develop their business skills and not to ignore this positive energy. There is a huge amount of value that can be gained by all involved.

They said they had heard all about me and my take on making money from my daughter (may be they will opt-in, ha).

But they didn’t want to encourage any activities which would take the pupils attention away from their studies.

I’m not sure how teaching children about making money can be seen as an extra curricular activity or a diversion, but hey that is the state of schooling in the UK right now.

I never understood how the two (main) things which play a huge part in adult life are not discussed and taught more in schools. Finances and Relationships.

Maybe if they were taught, discussed, addressed at school level the world may just be in a better place.

Teach on
Dwayne

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Susanna Hess June 15, 2010 at 13:57

I LOVE this post Dwayne!!!

It had me laughing and sympathizing with your daughter.

You're exactly right. Those two things should not be taboo in schools.

I suppose it's a good lesson for your daughter though… there is always a time and a place, and then there are times when it's simply not acceptable.

Life teaches such great lessons. Sounds like you're doing an outstanding job!

Susanna

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Fred Williams June 15, 2010 at 16:07

Dwayne,

All I can say is wow. I can't believe she got into trouble over that. I understand that the school has rules but still…wow. Well, all I can say is this, it sounds like you are doing a very good job of raising and teaching your daughter.

Years from now when she has become a successful entrepreneur herself, (sounds like she already is from the amounts of chocolate she sold) a lot of the kids she went to school with will be living their lives working for the man, while your daughter is out there making things happen in the entrepreneurial world.

It's a shame that the schools these days don't see the importance of being able to create wealth on your own.

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Derek Alvarez June 15, 2010 at 19:13

Hi Dwayne,

I loved this story, man!

I think the problem is that most schools are set up to teach students how to be reliable workers who don't think much for themselves.

It looks like you have a little entrepreneur on your hands — Congratulations, job well done, sir!

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Ryan June 15, 2010 at 21:05

I've had to work through the “entrepreneurs are wheelers and dealers or scheisters” mindset which I acquired growing up, believe you me Dwayne. It's been a painful and embarrassing process at times but it's been worth it.

You are doing your daughter a phenomenal service. She understands at an early age how to get ahead in life. God Bless You for giving her an entrepreneurial spirit.

As for schools if I could have dropped out of grammar and picked up a copy of Think and Grow Rich I swear that I would have. Schools teach book smarts but unfortunately we don't do business with books. The real world teaches street smarts which is real wisdom.

RB

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Josh Garcia
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June 15, 2010 at 21:28

Hey Dwayne,

That is great that you are teaching your daughter what entrepreneur is all about. It would be great if school would teach this but everyone that is at school is an employee. So how can they teach it?

Chat with you later…
Josh

BTW…My mother got many calls from school because I use to sell soda cans. Who the heck wanted to drink milk with their lunch? :)

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Chris Bernardo June 16, 2010 at 01:34

Dwayne,

Great job on the post here, My son over summer break is helping me with my business and pay him weekly salary and knows that from what i do working from home full time and being my own boss, the one thing he knows is that you can do and have success with anything you put your mind too. He knows the value of putting in time to work for what you want. Thanks for sharing!

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waynewu June 16, 2010 at 04:27

Wow, what a great story! You've taught your daughter well.

I don't think it's just UK schools that have this problem, but all schools around the world. If you look at it from a conspiracy theory point of view, the only financial education I got from school was how compound interest works. That would imply they wanted you to save money, thinking that compound interest would make you rich, but really you were making the big corporations rich with your savings.

If you've read Robert Kiyosaki's Conspiracy of the Rich, he says in there oil magnate John D Rockefeller was responsible for taking financial education out of the education system in the early 1900s.

Live Large,
Wayne

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marcusbaker June 16, 2010 at 13:41

Hi Dwayne,

Loved the post. The reason why I became a school teacher was to teach kids practical life skills like entrepreneurship amongst others. After teaching in four different countries, one of the reasons I left teaching was because I realized I was wasting my time. Sad but true!

~Marcus

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Cheryl VanOrnum June 16, 2010 at 21:09

Dwayne,
Great post! I love that you are encouraging towards your daughter's entrepreneurial spirit. In fact, when I was a pre-teen, my father helped me start my own business painting the house numbers on sidewalks. Thanks to my father, this same entrepreneurial spirit still lives in me. I guess it's up to the parents and not the schools to teach this…unfortunately.
Keep up the great work dad!

Best,
Cheryl VanOrnum

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Dwayne Huggins June 16, 2010 at 22:44

Hey Cheryl

Welcome to my online world.

As a parent we (should) naturally teach our children what we know will be beneficial to them. Especially things which we have learned along the way.

The schools are never going to unfortunately teach this stuff, which is so sad.

You father has done you well. Good on him.

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Dwayne Huggins June 16, 2010 at 22:45

Hey Marcus

That is sad, but you are still teach all of us, so you teaching abilities have not gone to waste.

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Dwayne Huggins June 16, 2010 at 22:47

Thanks Wayne.

I love conspiracy theories, we are going to have to discuss this more in-depth at some point.

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marcusbaker June 17, 2010 at 00:52

That is true and they say once a teacher always one. :) I guess they say that about most professions. Ha ha

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Dwayne Huggins June 17, 2010 at 13:13

Hey Susanna

Schools should embrace and enhance their pupils inner entrepreneur.

Thanks

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Dwayne Huggins June 17, 2010 at 13:17

Hey Fred

Welcome to my place online and thnak you for your comment.

I kind of see where is the school is coming from with not want pupils to carry money. But they should still take the energy that the puplis offer and channel it into something productive

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Dwayne Huggins June 17, 2010 at 13:17

Hey Mr Alvarez

Thank you sir.

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Dwayne Huggins June 17, 2010 at 13:18

Hey Ryan

Thanks.

I am glad she is open to learning and trying business ideas. I feels good to be able to pass on the knowledge that I have to my siblings

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Dwayne Huggins June 17, 2010 at 13:19

I can well imagine with you Josh!!

Thanks brother

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Dwayne Huggins June 17, 2010 at 13:21

Hey Chris

It is great that you get your son involved in your business. He will learn valuable lesson/s from you which will on enhance
his future.

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Charlie Holles June 20, 2010 at 15:46

Love the story. I hope your daughter keeps going on the path. Sadly education around the world is mainly about keeping people in line, not about encouraging them to think for themselves.

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Dwayne Huggins June 21, 2010 at 07:48

Hey Charlie

Sad but very true.

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